‘I Didn’t Get To Come Home…I Died Doing Something Meaningful’
May 29, 2023
For Memorial Day, we share the story of the death of local Marine LCpl. Travis M. Nelson, who gave his life in Afghanistan on August 18, 2011.
Gold Star Mom Beckie Nelson spoke with NorthEscambia.com a decade after Nelson’s death and her son’s ultimate sacrifice in Afghanistan.
I Died Doing Something Meaningful.
And she shared with us a short, simple note LCpl Travis Nelson left behind in his field book just in case he did not return.
“Dear friends & family, If your reading this it seems I didn’t get to come home. I love each and every one of you and I want you to know I have no regrets. I died doing something meaningful.”
He died a few short weeks after writing that note.
Beckie Nelson clings to those words that provided her peace and understanding.
“We received Travis’ belongings weeks after the funeral. The emotions we felt as we opened the trunk are unexplainable. Still in disbelief, our hearts still in pieces, it was gut wrenching to say the least. When I saw this page I closed the book, laid down on his bed with it in my arms and I actually slept for the first time in weeks.”
Growing Up With A Promise To His Mother
A young Travis Nelson grew up in Bratt, just two doors down from the modern day Travis M. Nelson Park that was named in his memory about a year after its 2010 opening.
He would play on those very grounds, shooting his BB gun and riding his go cart. His first love in his young life was fishing. At four years old, he would spend hours with relatives fishing on the Escambia River. No matter how old he got, he never gave up the love for a fishing pole and hook. He also loved playing baseball at Northwest Escambia’s Bradberry Park in Walnut Hill.
On Sept., 11, 2001, Travis Nelson was nine years old when America was attacked. He was not playing; he was fixated on the news.
And he made a promise that day. The kind of promise to a mother that a young man will do anything to uphold.
“I’ll never forget him saying ‘Momma, I will protect you. I will be a soldier’,” Beckie Nelson said.
The family last saw Travis on July 13, 2011, as he deployed for Afghanistan. Their last phone conversation was Monday, August, 15, 2011, as he requested items for a care package.
That care package was still sitting by the front door three days later. It never made it to the mail.
August 18, 2011.
It was about noon on Thursday, August 18, 2011, at the Nelson home in Bratt.
An American flag fluttered in the breeze on the porch.
And three men in military uniforms stood at the door. Beckie Nelson knew what that meant.
“I just screamed and said no,” she said. “I just went to my knees and said don’t let them come in. I knew right away that he was gone.”
My Biggest Fear
The next day, Beckie Nelson sat in the middle of her bed with a laptop, reading the scores of reader comments on a NorthEscambia.com story about Travis Nelson’s death.
“He really was our hero,” she said, clutching a 5×7 photo of her son.
“I didn’t think I could see past that day. I felt like it would always be that day. I didn’t imagine that I could ever talk about it,” she said. “But I can, and it has to do with the support groups, the military support groups, and the community support.”
She was remarkably strong as she talked about the heart wrenching pain of that day.
But during our interview, her voice broke.
“My biggest fear,” she said before pausing. “My biggest fear was that Travis would be forgotten. I was scared I was going to forget.”
A Fallen Marine Returns.
LCpl. Travis M. Nelson was never forgotten.
The rain poured down at Pensacola Naval Air Station August 24, 2011, as Nelson’s body arrived on the final leg of his journey home.
Outside the main gate of Pensacola NAS, people gathered to pay their respects to the young soldier. The rain did not send them running; they stood silently — many holding American flags — as the hearse carrying an American hero departed on a 55-mile journey to Atmore.
Along the way, some of Pensacola’s busiest roadways came to a complete standstill as the motorcade passed. Many motorists stood outside their vehicles and paid their respects.
In Walnut Hill, just a few miles from Nelson’s boyhood home in Bratt, the motorcade slowed as it approached Ernest Ward Middle School. Nelson was a Golden Eagle, attending Ernest Ward in the sixth and seventh grades.
Hundreds of Ernest Ward Middle School students and teachers dressed in red, white and blue lined Highway 97, American flags in hand, waiting for the arrival of the motorcade.
Several of Nelson’s middle school teachers were among the crowd that suddenly grew silent as the first sirens could be heard. As the procession passed, the students stood with their hands over their hearts, waving Old Glory. The thunder of 127 Patriot Guard motorcycle riders vibrated the ground and echoed across the country fields near the school.
Six Florida Highway Patrol trooper vehicles led the hearse past the school. Many students and teachers broke down in tears at the sight of a flag draped coffin. Others cried as they made eye contact with Nelson’s parents and their daughter — who was a sixth grader at Ernest Ward at the time.
“I look back at those pictures now,” Beckie Nelson said. “Those pictures from the middle school. It meant so much. Those kids are now fathers, mothers, some are now serving in the military.”
My Travis.
“Travis knew at nine years old that nothing was going to hold him back. That was his heart’s desire,” Beckie Nelson said 10 years later. “That’s what he wanted to do with his life.”
“God had a greater plan for my Travis.”
Above: NorthEscambia.com photos, click to enlarge.
Comments
12 Responses to “‘I Didn’t Get To Come Home…I Died Doing Something Meaningful’”
I couldn’t read this with dry eyes. Very proud and thankful for Travis’s service. God bless his family and friends.
Not only did I read this story but I had someone read it to me. I want to remember (Travis) this hero’s story. My heart goes out to Travis’s mother and the whole family and friends. May his story bring comfort knowing that it’s because of his sacrifice we have freedom. It’s a big price to pay, the ultimate price for freedom. His note tells all about his unselfishness. May he rest in peace. LINDA THERIOT
Freedom is not free. It has been build on the great men and women serving our great nation. Please tell and indoctrinate the future generations to be proud off our nation. May the gods thank all the great men and women before us who gave it all for our great nation .
Dear Beckie,
On behalf of Pace High School, I want you to know that your precious, brave, and amazing Travis has tributes throughout his Alma Mater, including pictures, newspaper articles, and plaques. He is remembered at our Sam Vickers Celebration of America each year during the program and the video presentation. We speak about Travis and the young age that he chose to serve and fight for our continued preservation of freedom. He will never be forgotten and his memory and his Spirit of Patriotism will live forever. As his Mother, only another Mother who has suffered your loss could know how you feel, or how to comfort you. However, Travis and his family will forever be a part of Pace High School as we continue to be PATRIOT STRONG..
May God Bless America Again,
Stephanie Jernigan-Watson
Pace High School
We continue to be blessed by each and everyone! TY William for sharing Travs story and always, honoring and remembering! It truly renews my strength knowing that Travis’ legacy will never be forgotten. For all our fallen soldiers, You will never be forgotten and I will always say a prayer for their families!
Thank you Gold Star family— I don’t know you but I appreciate you and I am thinking about your son today.
Mrs, Nelson, thank you for sharing your story today. God knows the reason some are called home earlier than others. I think he needs Angels of all ages to guide us through. Bless you for your sacrifice.
May we always be reminded of what Memorial Day stands for! Thank You northescambia for printing this touching story to remember those who gave all they had for us. I am thankful.
Dear Ms Nelson,
After composing myself after reading this story on this most important day, perhaps you will find some encouragement in my words. On Sept 11, 2001, I was a 38-yr-old father of 5 lovely children, at a job site in Kentucky, when the TVs broadcast the attacks in NYC, Washington, and the downed flight in PA. As was the case with many men and women, my thoughts immediately went towards doing something, anything, to defend this beloved republic of ours, and my family. I so desired to join the military, because I saw the cause. I did not follow through. But your son, your precious Travis, at the young age of 9, showed tremendous maturity, and saw that great cause. He followed through on his commitment, and he found his true purpose on this earth (many never find this). Also, he demonstrated the highest form of true love, because “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:13). Of course, this was spoken by Christ about His sacrifice for the sins of mankind, but in similar fashion, Travis, saw a higher purpose, and – without regret – courageously loved by giving his life… for you, your family, all of us in the Nation we love. May you find comfort on this solemn day.
I’ll always remember that ride. Leaving Pensacola NAS in the pouring rain and all of the people roadside paying their respect from Pensacola to Atmore. It was where tears of Pride & Sorrow met.
Semper Fidelis
It was an honor to have been part of Patriot Guard Riders and to have been in the procession escorting Travis home.
Godspeed, Marine.
Godspeed, Beckie.
My husband and I went to the park Friday and saw the memorial for Travis for the first time. It’s a beautiful dedication. Even though I’m balling my eyes out now, thank you for sharing his story.