She Said It Was Over. He Thought They Were Getting Married. He’s Now Charged With Stalking.

December 5, 2019

A Cantonment man has been charged with the ongoing stalking of his ex-girlfriend along with her father and daughterr because he believed they were getting married, even though she left him months ago.

Ted Dean Spivey, 59, was charged with three counts of stalking. He was later released on a $6,000 bond.

The victim stated she had broken up with Spivey about four months ago after an “off and on” relationship that lasted about three years.

On multiple occasions, Spivey allegedly stood outside a residence where the woman was present for over an hour calling her name, giggling and throwing rocks at the window, according to an arrest report. He also allegedly has threatened her and her family, battered her, and  harassed her father and daughter.

Spivey also allegedly “constantly” messages one of the victims on Facebook in an attempt to reach the woman, according to deputies.

When arrested, Spivey told a deputy that he was not aware the victim had broken up with him, and he “believed they would be getting married, despite him not seeing or speaking to her for around one month,” according to an arrest report.

Comments

15 Responses to “She Said It Was Over. He Thought They Were Getting Married. He’s Now Charged With Stalking.”

  1. Epstein on December 5th, 2019 10:13 pm

    I feel really bad for the guy . He looks like he’s lived a rough life . Maybe he can pull himself up outta this hole he’s in and move forward.
    God has a plan for everyone and me , you or no one else is above him or better than him . We all are equal in the Lords eyes .

  2. BG on December 5th, 2019 9:27 pm

    I feel sorry for him and praying for him

  3. Molino Girl on December 5th, 2019 7:08 pm

    It’s sad. He looks like he’s had a really rough life mixed with some mental illness. Hope he gets some help.

  4. EMD on December 5th, 2019 5:23 pm

    This makes me feel sad. He looks so surprised and so sad..

  5. DD on December 5th, 2019 5:21 pm

    OMG !!!!! 59

  6. Guido on December 5th, 2019 3:18 pm

    It’s me it’s me it’s Ernest T

  7. paul on December 5th, 2019 12:34 pm

    I’m 60 and I look about 20yrs younger than him.
    I don’t have any lines on my face.
    Unless my eyes aren’t really so good, ;)

  8. MerMazed on December 5th, 2019 11:28 am

    He’s ONLY 59?

  9. omg on December 5th, 2019 9:09 am

    ERNEST T BASS

  10. tg on December 5th, 2019 8:33 am

    He is proof that you cant fix a broken heart.

  11. Hogstooth on December 5th, 2019 8:11 am

    Wow and wow

  12. Sasha on December 5th, 2019 7:43 am

    @catman I am rolling over here laughing at your comment.

  13. sam on December 5th, 2019 7:23 am

    he needs help. she does too.

  14. Mike on December 5th, 2019 7:20 am

    59 never looked so young

  15. catman on December 5th, 2019 5:47 am

    Wow giggling and throwing rocks at her window. I thought Ernest T. Bass lived around Mayberry.

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